What role does your attitude play in your life?
Mar 22nd, 2008 by Fruit Punch
The role of your attitude is something very important, because your attitude will show what kind of person you are. It shows more of what kind of person you are then your facial expression. They way you act, speak, walk etc lies on your attitude.
Who would ever think that your attitude plays a major role in your life! Well it does, and it’s about time you start paying more attention to your attitude then you usually do.
Your attitude can play two roles; one that attracts people to you, and one that draws people away from you. So in other means, a positive and a negative attitude. I will give you an example.
When you treat people good, believe in yourself, be there for others, talk positive things, come up with great ideas and so on. Just being yourself with a positive mind and being cool is already a start on a positive attitude. Now a negative attitude is like when you feel you’re better then everyone, put people down, always think that bad things will happen to you, always grumpy and complaining. Short and sour: A negative attitude is when you don’t care about no one but yourself.
So you decide which attitude you have, and which one you want. What role does your attitude play for you? 99% of the time people watch your attitude more then they watch you. If you have a bad attitude no one wants to deal with you, unless they them self have a negative attitude. And I can tell you from experience, you will not get far with a negative attitude.
Around a year ago I had a nasty attitude. It was so bad it had a scent. Nothing good would stay in my life, I would loose everything I ever had, and as for people skills I had none what so ever. You couldn’t tell me things I didn’t want to hear, and I just had to have my way, if not then I wouldn’t want to associate with you until I got my way. I was a hand full, not even my parents could of handled me.
But then I found someone, who wasn’t accepting my attitude. He had a positive attitude, but he knew exactly how to handle mines. I saw that he wasn’t like the others, he wouldn’t give me my way. He didn’t have me feeling spoil and rotten, he made me realize that “it’s not just about you” meaning me. He made me learn the hard way, and then is when I woke up and saw that I wasn’t moving anywhere in my life.
It wasn’t easy to change my attitude from negative to positive, but I did it because “I wanted it”. And now things are so much better. I am attracting all kinds of people, who admire me and ask me for advise, people who stopped talking to me because of my attitude, are now talking back to me because I’ve changed. And most importantly school is going much much better because of my attitude. I love myself, I enjoy my life, I am happy, I am strong. And that is all based on my positive attitude.
So you can see how important my attitude is for me, it plays 100% in my life. Thanks to my special friend for letting me see how important and how good it feels to have a positive attitude.
i am just proud of u . Your website is amazing , keep up the good work o.k
Love Christel
So my girl u got talent . well you are deep . When reading your stories it does make me think deep ………
Hi,
Your website is really nice and I have enjoyed reading your articles. I do hope you keep on writing. I am really inspired by your writing style and do believe you have proven that anyone can make it with desire.
I wish I had the power to do what you have done and create a website that can help others. Your so loved by many, wish we would meet one day. Keep up the great work.
As you stated, attitude is what made it for you. Once you changed your attitude things started to happen.
What really happened, tell me about your change?
Rudolf, not the red nose rain-deer
Hi Rudolf, thanks a billion for your complement.
I too would like to meet you some day, along with all my other readers. We should arrange it, so that it really takes place, and even give you my autograph.
I first start loving myself and appreciating myself. Seeing my strength and what I could do with it. I changed the way I use to think and talk. Got out of the bully attitude of always wanting to use bad words and pick a fight, and I calm myself down and think before I speak. And one of the most important things, I got this blog, so that kind of changed me around also. You can’t have a blog telling people about positive attitude and you yourself has a negative one. So it’s a lot of things that changed me around.
And all of this was because a friend saw the potentials in me, and wanted to help bring out the best in me.
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So True babes!!!
Keep the positive vibes no matter what struggles u go tru with ur peeps..
much love(k)
U Going to reach Far(S)
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