How do you control?
Feb 19th, 2008 by Fruit Punch
When you are angry, hurt, furious, sad, upset, moody, and depressed how do you act? How can you get rid of that mood at that very moment? Why does it take place in the first place?
I do not know everyone’s way of thinking, so I can not say what’s the cause of it. Many say it’s you, what you’re thinking about. The negative thoughts is what brings you in that mood. Because we know for sure it’s not the positive.
My reason for getting into these moods is when I don’t get my way, or when people don’t stay and hear me out, just because they think that I don’t know what I’m talking about or my opinion isn’t worth it. That just gets me pissed, also when someone lies to me, or betrays me. There are many things that trigger my mind. I get upset very easily and reach to a point where I would have to walk away and think things through first. Because when you’re heated up inside you just don’t know what to say. And it’s at that point when you have to tell yourself “Somethings are better left unsaid”.
And believe you me, words do hurts. Once said you can’t take them back, right? So I rather walk away and think about the situation before I make a complete fool of myself.
Controlling your moods is nothing easy. It takes commitment. My way of controlling my moods is to walk away, but still you will notice that something is wrong because my attitude for everything around me just shifts. And that is something I have to really work on. I can’t be walking away from my problems. Have to stand up and deal with them.
My way of getting out of my moods is writing on my blog, but that’s not really a solution. Because deep down I’m trapping myself for disaster. There will come a day when I don’t have internet and I can’t get on my blog…then what?
So controlling my moods is something I have to definitely work on.
Is there a mood that you have that you don’t know how to control? I would love to hear about it.
You said it yourself, you get in moods because of lies, and no trust.
You need to realize that you control your life, not the other person life. So stop bringing on your moods. Your the control, you have to no control over them.
We all tend to get moody when we can’t get our way, so stop trying to get people to think or act the way you want, it won’t ever work.
You have to accept your friends for who they are and learn to treat each friend differently.
I have some “Pretty Perky” friends, If I was a man, I would be trying to take off their panties also. I go out with them when I want men to act stupid and try to play with their minds. They are friends from a different breed. Sometimes I wonder if they have gold down there.
I have some “Hot Ass” friends, with them I know my place, so I don’t go out with them. They always end up in some man bed. They seem to have fun doing it, I wish them luck.
I have some “drinking friends”, I never start drinking with them, anytime they start I always have to go.
I have some ” Lying Ass” friends, everything they tell you is a lie. I never repeat or believe what they say.
I have some “Really Nice ” friends, they are my friends, but too nice. They not my type.
I have some “F***ing Ugly Friends”, and they are the friends I have the best time with.
Lastly, I got “A Trustworthy Friend”, we share lots of secrets, but I don’t think we tell each other everything, but I know we can count on each other.
Make friends, don’t try to change them, be selective who you choose as a friend. And who you choose as your best friend.
I don’t judge none of my friends, I know what I want, they can do what they want. I accept them for who they are. I always ask why they do it, and their answers always makes no sense.
So I don’t ask anymore, I love the all, some I love a little more than others. I don’t ever get mad or moody with them. I just accept them for who they are. You should try that.
You have a good bit of different groups of friends. I like how you separated them. And also that you love all of them no matter what.
And with my friends I really think I am trying to hard to make all my friendships the best of the best and looking over the fact to just appreciate and accept the person for who they are and what they stand for, even though I don’t always agree.
It’s about you (in my case me)being a good friend and not looking at the other person to see if they’re being a good friend to you or not.
A good friend accepts, appreciates and understands.
Thank you for you comment Moody BLue
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